SISL5 - I Can't See - Struggles in the Spiritual Life with Fr. Timothy Gallagher

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I Can’t See – Struggles in the Spiritual Life with Fr. Timothy Gallagher O.M.V.

Fr. Timothy Gallagher and Kris McGregor discuss the concept of spiritual desolation, as seen through the experiences of a fictional character named Julie.

Julie, like many who start growing spiritually, experiences initial peace, joy, and progress in prayer, only to later feel confusion and darkness, which Fr. Gallagher identifies as a typical instance of spiritual desolation. This state, described in the teachings of St. Ignatius of Loyola, involves discouragement and doubt, leading individuals to question their spiritual progress. Such trials are common and a sign of spiritual growth. He encourages persistence and advises against making any changes to spiritual practices during times of desolation.

Fr. Gallagher explains that the enemy (Satan, the effects of original sin, and worldly distractions) uses desolation to lead souls away from God, while the good spirit (God, angels, grace, and holy influences) aids them in persevering through it. He offers practical advice, drawn from St. Ignatius, such as maintaining spiritual disciplines and seeking guidance from spiritual friends or directors to navigate these dark times. It’s important for us to understand spiritual struggles by naming them, and firmly rejecting any lies that arise in times of desolation.

You can pick up a copy of the book here.

Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions

Understanding Spiritual Desolation: How can recognizing and naming spiritual desolation in our lives help us resist discouragement and stay on the path of spiritual growth?
Discouragement and the Enemy’s Lies: How does the enemy use discouragement during times of spiritual desolation, and what lies are we most vulnerable to during these moments?
Perseverance in Prayer: What spiritual practices have you considered giving up during times of desolation, and how can you apply Ignatius’ Rule 5 to remain steadfast?
Spiritual Friendship and Guidance: How can having a spiritual friend or mentor, like Julie had with Emily, provide support and clarity during difficult spiritual times?
Balancing Expectations in the Spiritual Life: How can we cultivate a sustainable and realistic approach to our spiritual practices to prevent burnout and ensure steady growth?
The Role of Silence and Prayer in a Busy World: In what ways can silence and regular prayer serve as an antidote to the fast-paced culture we live in, both spiritually and humanly?

An excerpt from the book:

“The enemy’s lie says, “Look how badly things are going! You are confused. You can’t see clearly. You are regressing. And things will only get worse.” No! For months, Julie has prayed faithfully and sought to grow. She is simply — again, there is no shame in this — experiencing a tactic of the enemy: a spiritual desolation that the enemy hopes will impede her growth.

By enemy, Ignatius intends Satan and his associated fallen angels, together with the wound of concupiscence — a legacy of original sin — and harmful influences around us in the world. By spiritual desolation, he intends a heaviness of heart (and so, desolation) on the level of our relationship with God (and so, spiritual).

Julie experiences one form of such spiritual desolation, a form that Ignatius calls “darkness of soul.”11 In such spiritual desolation, a burden, a confusion, a heaviness — a darkness — enters our prayer and our efforts to love God. A feeling that this will worsen may accompany this darkness.”

Gallagher O.M.V, Fr. Timothy ; Gallagher O.M.V, Fr. Timothy. Struggles in the Spiritual Life: Their Nature and Their Remedies (p. 32). Sophia Institute Press. Kindle Edition.

To find more episodes from this series, visit the Struggles in the Spiritual Life Podcast

From the book’s description:

“Here is a powerful, life-changing book that will help you understand and conquer the struggles you face in your spiritual life. It’s a book for those who love the Lord and desire holiness yet often feel adrift or stagnant in their search for spiritual growth.

All of us encounter valleys on our journey with the Lord — those periods of spiritual desolation that are a painful yet unavoidable feature of our prayer life. Spiritual desolation is as complex as we are, so understanding what is happening and responding to it properly are critical to reaching the heights of holiness.

With warmth and understanding, Fr. Gallagher carefully identifies in this book the various forms of spiritual and nonspiritual desolation and supplies the remedy for each. You’ll learn how to discern whether your struggles derive from medical or psychological conditions or whether those struggles are spiritual and permitted by the Lord for reasons of growth. In each case, you’ll be given the remedy for the struggle. You’ll also learn the forms of spiritual dryness and of the Dark Night — and how to respond to them.

In chapter after chapter, Fr. Gallagher presents a particular struggle as experienced by fictional characters and then provides the advice he gives to those who come to him for spiritual direction about that struggle. You’ll gain confidence as you journey through desolation, and you’ll learn to reject the enemy’s ploys to infect you with a sense of hopelessness.“