“The world tempts us either by attaching us to it in prosperity, or by filling us with fear of adversity. But faith overcomes this in that we believe in a life to come better than this one, and hence we despise the riches of this world and we are not terrified in the face of adversity.”
― Thomas Aquinas, The Catechetical Instructions
Through the intercession of St. Thomas Aquinas,
Grant me grace, O merciful God,
to desire ardently all that is pleasing to Thee,
to examine it prudently,
to acknowledge it truthfully,
and to accomplish it perfectly,
for the praise and glory of Thy name.
In particular, please obtain the favor I ask during this novena.
[Make your request here…]
Grant me, O Lord my God,
a mind to know you,
a heart to seek you,
wisdom to find you,
conduct pleasing to you,
faithful perseverance in waiting for you,
and a hope of finally embracing you.
Leadership and Soberness – The Holy Rule of St. Benedict with Fr. Mauritius Wilde OSB
Fr. Mauritius Wilde discusses the virtue of soberness in leadership as described in the Rule of St. Benedict and Scripture. Soberness, understood as clarity and openness to truth, is essential for effective leadership, preventing decisions clouded by emotions like anger, pride, or envy. St. Benedict states the need for a leader’s inner peace, prudence, and mercy, as well as the need to create an environment where others can also find peace. Drawing on examples from Scripture, sober leaders not only make sound decisions but also act as stabilizing figures, much like St. Peter, whom Christ called a rock for his steadfastness.
Fr. Mauritius connects soberness to practical guidance for both monastic and everyday leadership, including parenting in the domestic church. It’s important for leaders to become self-aware, manage their emotions, and lead by example, as their demeanor directly influences those they serve. Soberness combined with mercy fosters trust and enables leaders to discern wisely while addressing challenges with compassion. This virtue is a gift of service to others, shaping communities with integrity and peace.
Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions
Soberness in Leadership: Reflect on how soberness in your leadership or daily responsibilities allows you to approach challenges with clarity and peace.
Influence of Emotions: Consider how your emotions might impact those you lead or interact with and what practices could help you achieve greater balance.
Integration of Mercy and Soberness: Examine ways to combine soberness with mercy in your decisions, ensuring both truth and compassion guide your actions.
Role Modeling Virtues: Reflect on the example you set for others, especially in how your inner peace or lack thereof shapes your family, workplace, or community.
Discernment Through Prayer: Contemplate how time with God in prayer can help you clear your mind and heart to discern and act in alignment with His will.
Leadership as Service: Consider how your leadership or influence can be a gift of service to others by fostering trust, peace, and wise decision-making.
Spiritual Readiness: Reflect on how cultivating virtues like soberness, prudence, and mercy can help you remain spiritually prepared for challenges and opportunities.
“He must, therefore, be versed in the divine law, that he may know whence “to bring forth new things and old” (Mt 13:52). Let him be chaste, sober, and merciful, and let him always exalt “mercy above judgment” (Jas 2:13), that he also may obtain mercy.
Let him hate vice, but love the brethren. And even in his corrections, let him act with prudence and not go to extremes, lest, while he aimeth to remove the rust too thoroughly, the vessel be broken. Let him always keep his own frailty in mind, and remember that “the bruised reed must not be broken” (Is 42:3). In this we are not saying that he should allow evils to take root, but that he cut them off with prudence and charity, as he shall see it is best for each one, as we have already said; and let him aim to be loved rather than feared.
Let him not be fussy or over-anxious, exacting, or headstrong; let him not be jealous or suspicious, because he will never have rest. In all his commands, whether they refer to things spiritual or temporal, let him be cautious and considerate. Let him be discerning and temperate in the tasks which he enjoineth, recalling the discretion of holy Jacob who saith: “If I should cause my flocks to be overdriven, they would all die in one day” (Gen 33:13). Keeping in view these and other dictates of discretion, the mother of virtues, let him so temper everything that the strong may still have something to desire and the weak may not draw back. Above all, let him take heed that he keep this Rule in all its detail; that when he hath served well he may hear from the Lord what the good servant heard who gave his fellow-servants bread in season: “Amen, I say to you,” He saith,”he shall set him over all his goods” (Mt 24:47).
If, however, anyone is found to break this rule, let him undergo heavy punishment, unless the needs of guests should arise, or the Abbot should perhaps give a command to anyone. But let even this be done with the utmost gravity and moderation.”
Father Mauritius Wilde, OSB, Ph.D., did his philosophical, theological and doctoral studies in Europe. He is the author of several books and directs retreats regularly. He serves as Prior at Sant’Anselmo in Rome. For more information about the ministry of the Missionary Benedictines of Christ the King Priory in Schuyler, NE
“Many cry to the Lord that they may win riches, that they may avoid losses; they cry that their family may be established, they ask for temporal happiness, for worldly dignities; and, lastly, they cry for bodily health, which is the patrimony of the poor. For these and such like things many cry to the Lord; hardly one cries for the Lord Himself! How easy it is for a man to desire all manner of things from the Lord and yet not desire the Lord Himself! As though the gift could be sweeter than the Giver!”
― Thomas Aquinas, On Prayer and The Contemplative Life
Through the intercession of St. Thomas Aquinas,
Grant me grace, O merciful God,
to desire ardently all that is pleasing to Thee,
to examine it prudently,
to acknowledge it truthfully,
and to accomplish it perfectly,
for the praise and glory of Thy name.
In particular, please obtain the favor I ask during this novena.
[Make your request here…]
Grant me, O Lord my God,
a mind to know you,
a heart to seek you,
wisdom to find you,
conduct pleasing to you,
faithful perseverance in waiting for you,
and a hope of finally embracing you.
Think for a moment of the piety of the Madonna when the angel told her that the Spirit would overshadow her. What sentiments of humility, confidence and courage! At the very moment when she understood that God had given her His heart, that is, His Son, she gave herself to God. Her soul was flooded with charity, so she could say with the sacred spouse, “…My heart trembled within me, and I grew faint when he spoke.” [Sg:5:4] As far as we are concerned, we receive a similar grace in Communion, because not an angel but Jesus Christ Himself assures us that in it the Holy Spirit descends on us. Heavenly power covers us with its shadow and the Son of God really comes to us. He can say that He is conceived and born in us. Truly then, the soul can respond with the Madonna, “I am the servant of the Lord; let is be done to me as you say.” [Lk 1:38] (Spiritual Directory, Art. 12)
O blessed Francis de Sales, who on earth did excel in a life of virtue,
especially in the love of God and neighbor,
I earnestly ask you to take me under your compassionate care and protection.
Obtain for me conversion of mind and heart.
Grant that all people,
especially (names of those whom you wish to include) may experience
the depth of God’s redeeming and healing love.
Teach me to fix my eyes on the things of heaven
even as I walk each day with my feet planted firmly on the earth.
Help me, through the practice of virtue and the pursuit of devotion,
to avoid anything that would otherwise cause me to stumble
in my attempt to follow Christ
and to be an instrument of the Holy Spirit.
Encouraged by your prayers and example,
help me to live fully my sacred dignity
with the hope of experiencing my sacred destiny:
eternal life with God.
Receive also this particular need or concern
that I now lift up in prayer. (mention your particular need).
O God, for the salvation of all,
you desired that St. Francis de Sales—
preacher, missionary, confessor, bishop and founder—
should befriend many long the road to salvation.
Mercifully grant that we,
infused with the humility and gentleness of his charity,
guided by his wisdom and sharing in his spirit
may experience eternal life.
St. Agnes, A Lamb for Christ – In Conversation With Mike Aquilina
In this classic conversation with Kris and Bruce McGregor, they discuss with Mike Aquilina the life and legacy of St. Agnes of Rome, a 12- or 13-year-old martyr who lived during the early 4th century. St. Agnes, from a noble Roman family, became renowned for her steadfast Christian faith, refusing suitors and choosing to consecrate her virginity to God. Amidst the Roman Empire’s widespread persecution of Christians, her refusal led to denunciation and martyrdom, during which she displayed extraordinary courage. Her witness inspired many, turning public opinion against the brutality of Christian persecution and fostering conversions. St. Agnes’s story emphasizes her purity, bravery, and the cultural contrast between Christian respect for life and the Roman practices of abortion and infanticide.
St. Agnes’s enduring relevance makes her a model for young girls facing cultural pressures. Her name, meaning “lamb,” symbolizes her gentle yet victorious spirit, depicted in art with a palm of martyrdom and a lamb. St. Agnes is honored in Rome with churches at her martyrdom and burial sites. Her impact spans centuries, inspiring faith and offering a powerful example of living courageously for Christ.
Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions
The Courage of Faith: Reflect on how St. Agnes’s unwavering faith inspires you to stand firm in your beliefs despite societal pressures.
Living as a Witness: Consider how you can witness to the Gospel in your own life, even in the face of challenges or criticism.
The Sanctity of Life: Contemplate the value of human life in light of St. Agnes’s time and the modern issues of abortion and infanticide.
Purity and Holiness: Think about how you can strive for purity and holiness in your thoughts, actions, and relationships.
Sacrifice for God: Reflect on what sacrifices you are willing to make to grow closer to God and follow His will.
Strength in Suffering: Ponder how St. Agnes’s acceptance of martyrdom encourages you to endure trials with faith and trust in God.
Inspiration for the Young: Identify ways you can support and guide the younger generation in following St. Agnes’s example of virtue and courage.
Martyrdom and Eucharist: Meditate on the connection between St. Agnes’s martyrdom and the Eucharist as a model of total self-giving.
Transforming Culture: Explore how you can contribute to building a culture of life and love in a world often marked by indifference and division.
Trust in Divine Victory: Reflect on the assurance that ultimate victory lies in God’s hands, as shown in St. Agnes’s triumph through her martyrdom.
“According to tradition, Saint Agnes was a member of the Roman nobility born c. 291 and raised in a Christian family. She suffered martyrdom at the age of twelve or thirteen during the reign of the Roman Emperor Diocletian, on 21 January 304.
The Prefect Sempronius wished Agnes to marry his son, and on Agnes’ refusal he condemned her to death. As Roman law did not permit the execution of virgins, Sempronius had a naked Agnes dragged through the streets to a brothel. Various versions of the legend give different methods of escape from this predicament. In one, as she prayed, her hair grew and covered her body. It was also said that all of the men who attempted to rape her were immediately struck blind. In another the son of the prefect is struck dead, but revived after Agnes prayed for him, causing her release. There is then a trial from which Sempronius excuses himself, and another figure presides, sentencing her to death. When led out to die she was tied to a stake, but the bundle of wood would not burn, or the flames parted away from her, whereupon the officer in charge of the troops drew his swordbeheaded her, or, in some other texts, stabbed her in the throat. It is also said that the blood of Agnes poured to the stadium floor where other Christians soaked up the blood with cloths. and
The daughter of Constantine I, Saint Constance, was also said to have been cured of leprosy after praying at Agnes’ tomb.”
A prayer to St. Agnes
Let us gain courage for our own battle
by honoring the martyrdom of the glorious virgin Agnes.
St. Agnes, vessel of honor,
flower of unfading fragrance,beloved of the choirs of Angels,
you are an example to the worth of virtue and chastity.
O you who wear a Martyr’s palm
and a virgin’s wreath,
pray for us that,
though unworthy of a special crown,
we may have our names written in the list of Saints.
Mike Aquilina is a popular author working in the area of Church history, especially patristics, the study of the early Church Fathers.[1] He is the executive vice-president and trustee of the St. Paul Center for Biblical Theology, a Roman Catholic research center based in Steubenville, Ohio. He is a contributing editor of Angelus (magazine) and general editor of the Reclaiming Catholic History Series from Ave Maria Press. He is the author or editor of more than fifty books, including The Fathers of the Church (2006); The Mass of the Early Christians (2007); Living the Mysteries(2003); and What Catholics Believe(1999). He has hosted eleven television series on the Eternal Word Television Network and is a frequent guest commentator on Catholic radio.
“God loves his creatures, and he loves each one the more, the more it shares his own goodness, which is the first and primary object of his love. Therefore he wants the desires of his rational creatures to be fulfilled because they share most perfectly of all creatures the goodness of God.
And his will is an accomplisher of things because he is the cause of things by his will. So it belongs to the divine goodness to fulfill the desires of rational creatures which are put to him in prayer.”
― Thomas Aquinas, Faith, Reason and Theology
Through the intercession of St. Thomas Aquinas,
Grant me grace, O merciful God,
to desire ardently all that is pleasing to Thee,
to examine it prudently,
to acknowledge it truthfully,
and to accomplish it perfectly,
for the praise and glory of Thy name.
In particular, please obtain the favor I ask during this novena.
[Make your request here…]
Grant me, O Lord my God,
a mind to know you,
a heart to seek you,
wisdom to find you,
conduct pleasing to you,
faithful perseverance in waiting for you,
and a hope of finally embracing you.
One of the greatest proofs of love that Jesus displayed on the cross was putting up with the imperfections of His neighbor. There He showed us that He has a heart that loves us tenderly and watches over us kindly. He even showed His love for those who put Him to death. In those dire moments the Savior expressed thoughts of love even for his executioners, pardoning them in the very act of sinning! How petty-minded we are when we cannot bring ourselves to forget some injury received, even after a long time! Whoever sincerely pardons another calls down abundant blessings and perfectly imitates Christ. (Spiritual Treatises IV; O. VI, pp. 65-66)
O blessed Francis de Sales, who on earth did excel in a life of virtue,
especially in the love of God and neighbor,
I earnestly ask you to take me under your compassionate care and protection.
Obtain for me conversion of mind and heart.
Grant that all people,
especially (names of those whom you wish to include) may experience
the depth of God’s redeeming and healing love.
Teach me to fix my eyes on the things of heaven
even as I walk each day with my feet planted firmly on the earth.
Help me, through the practice of virtue and the pursuit of devotion,
to avoid anything that would otherwise cause me to stumble
in my attempt to follow Christ
and to be an instrument of the Holy Spirit.
Encouraged by your prayers and example,
help me to live fully my sacred dignity
with the hope of experiencing my sacred destiny:
eternal life with God.
Receive also this particular need or concern
that I now lift up in prayer. (mention your particular need).
O God, for the salvation of all,
you desired that St. Francis de Sales—
preacher, missionary, confessor, bishop and founder—
should befriend many long the road to salvation.
Mercifully grant that we,
infused with the humility and gentleness of his charity,
guided by his wisdom and sharing in his spirit
may experience eternal life.
Walking with Christ in Prayer – Meditation and Contemplation with Fr. Timothy Gallagher
Fr. Timothy Gallagher explores Ignatian meditation and contemplation, illustrating these practices through the story of Catherine, a woman who experienced profound spiritual healing during her retreat. Catherine engaged deeply with the Passion of Christ using Ignatian imaginative prayer, placing herself in the Gospel scenes and encountering Jesus’ love and trust in the Father. This prayer journey led her to integrate her own suffering from a life-altering stroke with Christ’s Passion, ultimately experiencing God’s healing grace, renewal, and intimate presence in her struggles.
With the transformative power of daily prayer, whether reflective or imaginative, it can be used as a means to deepen one’s relationship with Go, using St. Ignatius’ advice on beginning prayer with a moment of stillness, lifting one’s heart to God and recognizing His loving gaze. This intentional practice shifts prayer from routine to profound relational encounter, opening the heart to God’s healing and grace. This episode highlights the accessibility and depth of Ignatian prayer as a path to intimacy with God and spiritual growth.
Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions
Encountering Jesus in Prayer: Reflect on how imaginative or reflective prayer can deepen your relationship with Jesus by bringing His experiences into your own life.
Trusting in God’s Providence: Consider moments in your life where suffering might be transformed by trusting in God’s love and plan, as shown in Catherine’s story.
God’s Loving Gaze: Contemplate what it means to see God’s infinite love and mercy in His gaze as you begin your time of prayer.
Joining in Christ’s Passion: Meditate on how entering the Passion of Christ through scripture can reveal the connection between His suffering and your own.
Healing Through Prayer: Ponder areas in your life where prayer could open your heart to healing and reconciliation with God.
Daily Faithfulness to Prayer: Reflect on how incorporating Ignatian prayer practices daily can enrich your spiritual journey and bring about transformation.
Receiving God’s Grace: Think about how prayer, even in small increments, creates space for God’s grace and blessings to flow into your life.
Father Timothy M. Gallagher, O.M.V., was ordained in 1979 as a member of the Oblates of the Virgin Mary, a religious community dedicated to retreats and spiritual formation according to the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius. Fr. Gallagher is featured on the EWTN series “Living the Discerning Life: The Spiritual Teachings of St. Ignatius of Loyola.” For more information on how to obtain copies of Fr. Gallaghers’s various books and audio, which are available for purchase, please visit his website: frtimothygallagher.org
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“Even though the natural light of the human mind is inadequate to make known what is revealed by faith, nevertheless what is divinely taught to us by faith cannot be contrary to what we are endowed with by nature. One or the other would have to be false, and since we have both of them from God, he would be the cause of our error, which is impossible.”
― Thomas Aquinas, Faith, Reason and Theology
Through the intercession of St. Thomas Aquinas,
Grant me grace, O merciful God,
to desire ardently all that is pleasing to Thee,
to examine it prudently,
to acknowledge it truthfully,
and to accomplish it perfectly,
for the praise and glory of Thy name.
In particular, please obtain the favor I ask during this novena.
[Make your request here…]
Grant me, O Lord my God,
a mind to know you,
a heart to seek you,
wisdom to find you,
conduct pleasing to you,
faithful perseverance in waiting for you,
and a hope of finally embracing you.
Our intellect is ordinarily full of ideas, opinions and considerations suggested by self-love. This is the root of many conflicts within the soul, putting before us all sorts of reasons dictated by human prudence to justify our pretensions. People who make use of this false prudence, instead of enlightening their intellect, obscure it. They reject advice given to them and let those reasons prevail in their minds which support their own opinions, even wrong ones. Make use of the virtue of prudence because it is good, but make good use of it. Employ it only rarely, with simplicity, and solely for the glory of God. (Sermons 30; O. IX, pp. 297-298)
O blessed Francis de Sales, who on earth did excel in a life of virtue,
especially in the love of God and neighbor,
I earnestly ask you to take me under your compassionate care and protection.
Obtain for me conversion of mind and heart.
Grant that all people,
especially (names of those whom you wish to include) may experience
the depth of God’s redeeming and healing love.
Teach me to fix my eyes on the things of heaven
even as I walk each day with my feet planted firmly on the earth.
Help me, through the practice of virtue and the pursuit of devotion,
to avoid anything that would otherwise cause me to stumble
in my attempt to follow Christ
and to be an instrument of the Holy Spirit.
Encouraged by your prayers and example,
help me to live fully my sacred dignity
with the hope of experiencing my sacred destiny:
eternal life with God.
Receive also this particular need or concern
that I now lift up in prayer. (mention your particular need).
O God, for the salvation of all,
you desired that St. Francis de Sales—
preacher, missionary, confessor, bishop and founder—
should befriend many long the road to salvation.
Mercifully grant that we,
infused with the humility and gentleness of his charity,
guided by his wisdom and sharing in his spirit
may experience eternal life.
St. Francis de Sales Novena – Day 9
St. Agnes, A Lamb for Christ – In Conversation With Mike Aquilina
St. Francis de Sales Novena – Day 8
Walking with Christ in Prayer – Meditation and Contemplation with Fr. Timothy Gallagher
Day 7